The only way someone can be of help to you is in challenging your ideas. If you're ready to listen and if you're ready to be challenged, there's one thing that you can do, but no one can help you. What is this most important thing of all? It's called self-observation. Anthony De Mello
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The only way someone can be of help to you is in challenging your ideas. If you're ready to listen and if you're ready to be challenged, there's one thing that you can do, but no one can help you. What is this most important thing of all? It's called self-observation. Self-observation is a form of mental toughness.

It’s a way to develop a level of mental toughness that allows a person to see the world as it really is instead of how they wish it was. The ability to tell the truth about oneself and how one feels allows people to make the best decisions for themselves and for their lives.

Source: Awareness: Conversations With The Masters

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